So, one of the big surprises in our exploration of chastity and denial play over the past year has been how big a role strap-ons have played in our sex lives. It’s still something we only use maybe once a week, twice at most, but this time last year even the idea of it was unbelievable!
A few months after we bought our first cage (which we still use regularly, the CB-6000s), we were shopping for sex toys again, where we saw a lot more chastity caps that involved strap-ons, and we decided to buy one.
So we started by buying a strap-on bondage set from Ehoney mytoyfirst.com/strap-on-harness.
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mytoyfirst premium unisex strap-on condom with 7″ G-spot dildo mytoyfirst.com/strap-ons.
It’s really, really good! The dildo it comes with is silicone and honestly the softest and smoothest toy I’ve ever played with. It’s also a nice size, has a curve where you can go up or down (I actually really like both) and it’s also nice and slim, which is very useful later on ……
It’s very stable and it has a little pocket inside for a vibrator so it vibrates a little and if I wear it it’s close to my clit which is great! But we didn’t really buy it for me to wear …… It’s for him to use.
But we didn’t really buy it to wear for me …… It’s for him! Hubby’s body is very average in size, but he has a great body.
Hubby’s dick is average size, don’t get me wrong, and I love it (although we both like to tease the size, but for some reason it turns us both on ……) , but this one is bigger and stays hard, well, forever! I’ve never cum from the hub before.
I’ve never cum from my husband fucking me with his cock, I just thought it was something I couldn’t do. As it turns out, I can!
After a few tries, we decided to really go for it and we did it for much longer than usual (because he had cum) and BOOM, I came from the inside and it was amazing! I’ve had g-spot orgasms before, but somehow it wasn’t a finger or a toy, it was my husband putting all his effort into it and that made it even more.
So the fact that I would use it to cum, plus the fact that I’m kind of obsessed with big dicks (just read back to this blog and you’ll understand lol), means that for Mother’s Day (yes, really!) Hubby bought this for me.
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King cock thick super realistic dildo with suction cups 8.5″ for nothing, seriously, I can’t even touch my fingers, it’s amazing!
What I didn’t realize is that the harness on this strap-on can take different sized dildos, so this monster just sticks right in. And the fact that it was realistic, I don’t know, for some reason was even sexier. This is the cock my husband wishes he could have, and now he does! Except his real cock is sitting down there, caged – it’s hard to describe how sexy that is ……
I know it sounds awkward, and yes, well, we both have that little bit, but in the end, it’s just a sex toy. The fact that it’s strapped to him instead of him using it on me with his hands (which he does) is just another way he uses it on me, and it’s the best way because we get to “fuck” with it, we get to face each other, kiss, hold each other, and it makes me cum because he’s fucking me every time we use it. Something we were never able to do before, no vibrations on my clit.
Plus, he said he actually liked the fact that he could go on without anxiety about losing his hard on. Don’t get me wrong, he still prefers real sex, but it’s a lot of fun for both of us and obviously works brilliantly with him being in the cage.
There are new positions that we can do that we never really do, especially being the extra length from behind makes a world of difference. We recently had the most ridiculously hot night where he was very horny and wanted to get out of the cage, but I made him wear this instead and, well, he basically threw me down and angrily fucked me from behind and it just went on because 1. he didn’t cum and 2. he stayed “hard”. It was remarkable, and no, I couldn’t walk a straight line the next day. I was sore and I definitely wanted to do it again. Damn, I want it now, to tell you the truth! lol
Another twist is that so far we’ve only used the purple one and he’s the one wearing it, not the cage …… Yes he’s hard and so is the dildo …… Can you guess how it works? Double penetration …… It was great for both of us, with the dildo in my pussy and his cock in my ass, very very hot. Even though he came before I came, we will try again!
So, this is LOTS of reasons why we love a strap-on www.mytoyfirst.com/anal-toys-mytoyfirst, but that’s only half the story!
So, another “twist” was when I put on the strap-on and used it on him!
Now that I think about it, I think that’s their main use in straight couples, but we bought it more with him wearing it in mind. But he obviously liked the idea, so we thought we’d give it a try.
The thing about pegging, at least on Tumblr, where I see it the most, is that it’s often portrayed as some violent, demeaning act of domination. That’s not our style.
What we’ve found is that it doesn’t have to be that way, it can actually be sexy, intimate and loving (or you can be wild, lol).
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